Have you wondered whether you were going to get that raise or wondering if you are on the same page with a loved one? But you were afraid to ask? Or you have asked but kept getting ‘maybe’ or ‘I don’t know’ and this didn’t give you a firm answer and direction you wished to go in. You felt uncomfortable and really wanted a solid answer, so you could get clear whether to stay and work on building the relationship with that person or business or move on.
This article is about a personal relationship but this can also apply to a job. Whether you will feel hurt about the answer, remember that having clarity in any situation will give you peace of mind, and save you heartache, upset and possible ill health down the road.